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I found a pretty useful website to understand more about adoption in Singapore and you might want to take a look to get a clearer picture.
Adoption
Adoption is a legal process by which the rights and responsibilities to a child are given up by the biological parents and taken on by the adoptive parents.
When you adopt a child, you are creating a family. It is not just a legal matter but one that involves deep human emotions. Adopting a child and experiencing parenthood are major steps in one's life.
For those who choose it, adoption can be an enriching and fulfilling experience for both parents and child - one that can be highly rewarding but will involve specific challenges.
Throughout these pages, you will find information and resources to help guide you through the process of adopting a child. It covers the considerations involved in adopting a child, the eligibility criteria as well as the issues and challenges that occur after adoption.
This is just a short overview and you can take a look at the website and read more about the various issues and considerations regarding adoption.
This is an article that I've found online with a point stating that more and more couples are getting divorced due to marriage troubles as they consider it their first option, or perhaps, the only solution. I believe that with a child in the relationship, they will have to take more into consideration as their child's happiness is at stake as well. This might prompt them to try and salvage the marriage instead of jumping into divorce immediately.
Singapore's divorce rate in 2007 lower than other countries
By Cheryl Lim, Channel NewsAsia | Posted: 27 March 2009 1918 hrs
SINGAPORE: Singapore's divorce rate in 2007 was low compared to other countries. According to the Department of Statistics, the divorce rate in Singapore in 2007 was 2.02 per 1,000 people.
This was lower than countries such as the United States and South Korea, which had divorce rates of 3.7 and 5.0 respectively in 2007.
However, the Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports (MCYS) said there is still room to reinforce the institution of marriage and encourage couples to get and remain married.
The number of divorces in Singapore has increased from about 5,600 ten years ago to 7,200 in 2007.
Speaking at the opening of a marriage convention on Friday, Minister of State for MCYS Yu-Foo Yee Shoon said marriages today are facing more challenges as couples cope with greater demands at work, competing aspirations and evolving societal values.
One concern is that many couples today increasingly see divorce as the first option when their marriage hits a rocky patch.
That is why Mrs Yu-Foo said it is important to equip couples with the correct mindset and skills to see them through the ups and downs of a marriage.
http://www.channelnewsasia.com/stories/singaporelocalnews/view/418231/1/.html
and also a well known case of a celebrity marriage, where children play a part in salvaging a broken relationship.
Woods' wife is staying
ORLANDO (Florida) - FINALLY, some hope for Tiger Woods.
His wife Elin Nordegren spent five days with the world's No. 1 golfer at a sex addiction clinic last week to help save their marriage for their children's sake.
Her parents divorced when she was a child and she does not want daughter Sam, two, and 50-week-old son Charlie to face the same difficulty.
'She wants to keep her family together even if she and Tiger live together as friends instead of lovers,' a source told People magazine.
The week began with more speculation on what led to the golfer's Thanksgiving night car crash - the trigger for one of the costliest sports-related scandals ever.
Two sources who know Nordegren revealed that just as Internet rumours spread over a coming National Enquirer story on Woods' affair with party planner Rachel Uchitel, he put his wife on the phone with his mistress for half an hour.
http://www.straitstimes.com/BreakingNews/Sport/Story/STIStory_483233.html
Would you stay if he strayed?
If your man strayed, would you give him another chance?
Jesslyn Wong, 33, senior manager: I used to think I wouldn't. But I realised I may not have such strength, especially since we have two kids. I'd find out the reason for his betrayal. If it happened in a moment of foolishness and there's no love between my husband and the other woman, and he shows he's genuinely sorry and willing to change, I'd consider staying. I'd forget, but it would be difficult for me to trust him again.
Angie Han, 29, senior officer: My husband is a pilot and he spends up to 12 days overseas at a time. Since we have two young children, I would evaluate the situation based on the bigger picture. After all, he's the father of my two children and he's a caring father. Still it would be pointless to carry on if he refuses to give up the other relationship.
Geraldine Tan, 29, registered psychologist: There is a clear distinction in the decision depending on whether kids are involved. After marriage and before children, it's about betrayal. If you have children, you have to consider the family as a whole unit, so it's common for the wife to blame herself for her husband's affair. Even so, she may hang onto the hope that he cares for the children. Separation and divorce is the last resort.
http://www.asiaone.com/Just%2BWoman/About%2BMe/Well%2BBeing/Story/A1Story20080110-44342.html